A Wishlist For Christmas...

A Wishlist For Christmas! 

This year and every year....

It would be awesome to have all our wishes come true!

This time wish for the 

Magical 

Feelings of

Love

Dream 

of the life you want...

Keep the flame of

Hope

Alive and

Believe 

You are awesome! 

Stay Positive 

Thru all your trials...

Be

Thankful

For all you have may be exactly what someone's wishing for!

Feeling Blessed 

At the end of the day....

Knowing you have it all! 

 Think!

What's on your wishlist this year?

Whose wishes have you managed to fulfill? 

Help someone get their wish come true....and the universe will do the same for you!

Changeing Adversity Into Opportunities

 

Turning every adverse situation into an opportunity to advance in life. That's what life should be all about! Hence when faced with something that doesn't align with our plans.... we should know intuitively and instinctively how to change our course to keep moving forward with our plans...new ones mixed in with our original ones. Hence making progress even in the face of adversity!

Lifes Highs And Lows..

Life's ups and downs!

We all have our high days and low ones too... on the high ones everyone enjoys your company. But.... the low days are the ones that really count. That's when you need people arround you the most! Unfortunately that's also the day when most people want to stay away from you! 

Think!

So who stood by you when you were up in life? 

Bless them.

Who stood by you when you were down in life?

Thank them.

Live Life Forward

 

Life can only be lived forwards...by understanding it backwards.

The lessons we learn from our past create a better future.

Think!

What did you learn from the best thing that happened to you?

What did you learn from the worst thing that happened to you?

Apply what you learnt!

 

Countdown To Christmas

 

The countdown to Christmas is just as amazing a time as Christmas itself....

The Countdown to Christmas is just as amazing a time as Christmas itself.... everything seems lighter and brighter. Life seems suddenly full of fun and joy. The joy of giving...as it's the time of gifts! Surprises! And more! Families gather together after being apart...it's true ...absence makes the heart grow fonder! Gathering together making new memories... while taking a walk down memory lane...thinking of old times. With the people around and thinking about the memories with the one's who have moved on! Bringing joy and happiness as we move on....

Think!

What brings you joy?

Do it! Life is too short.

What joy did you bring to others?

Bring some Give some!

How To Fix A Broken Heart!

 

A broken heart is a broken heart.... there's sometimes just nothing you can do about it.... but be patient with it. It's similar to a mirror once cracked and put back together..... it's still a mirror... but the image is unclear....! So it is with the broken heart. Maybe it's just not clear..... about how it feels. It takes time, time and some more time before things start looking like they were!

Think!

Have you been heartbroken? 

Be patient be kind time heals. Treat yourself well.

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The Hands We Hold

 

The hands we hold.... from the tiny little hands we hold to the wrinkled up ones we hold. Fill us with a wonder and deep feeling of something so unknown! Of trust of love of a knowing that all will be all right always! Of hope and wonder. A wonder that also pushes us on to think of all the things the tiny little hands will do one day!...and all the things achieved by the wrinkled up ones!... Our hands say a lot and can always do a lot. Give thanks to the hands that help you!

Think!

Whose tiny little hands did you hold and guide?

Whose wrinkled up one's did you hold while being blessed?

Feel the blessings given both ways!

Rambling Thoughts....

 

When you're entangled in the constant web of life. And every one's problems are yours.... your mind is in a constant flow of chatter and noise. When you still the noise and chatter you can hear the answers clearly. And you'll always know what to say and do!

Think!

Whose problems relate most to yours?

What solutions do you find for others? 

Apply them to your life as well!

Be Kind Anyway

Be Kind Anyway! 

 World Kindness Day!

Be kind anyway! 

Think!

Who's been kind to you?

Thank them.

Who have you been kind to lately?

Thank them too!

And the unkind one's...

Bless them anyway!

Resilience....

 

Life goes on. ...

Looking out of the window I see how life goes on, nothing seems to change everything seems to be the same.... even though everything for everyone has changed....through it all it seems like people just bounce back! Life goes on as usual the people living in big fast cities just bounce back showing the resilience of the people. Knowing that the meaning of life is to just keep going... to keep moving... To embrace change in all forms and ways, and make it work for you..! Always.

Think!

So when was the last time you hit rock bottom? 

Bless that time, 

be greatful for what you learnt thru it, 

and thank today for the place you have reached. 

The Lazy Genius....Aren't Really Lazy

 

When you make things look easy..... people think your lazy!

Thus sometimes efficiency gets a tag of lazy! The more efficiently you prioritize and do things the more time you find... It's the people who are swamped by chores and work, but love there own company so that they can get more time for themselves...who look lazy!

Think!

When was the last time you did something that brought you joy?

Be your first priority. 

Finish all your chores as fast as you can, and enjoy the rest of your free time. You earned it!

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Mistakes...

 

There's nothing like a mistake that changes everything known to you! One tiny mistake and everything's different. Sometimes different for the better or worse? And sometimes you know it's a mistake but your not too sure of the outcome, whether it's good or not! It's confusing. That's the time you need to have faith in things working out in your favor always! And slowly but surely things will change.... and only for the better!

Think!

What was your last mistake? 

What did you learn from it?

Apply your knowledge to today!

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Moving On..

We all move on from events in our life. Some of us move on quicker than others and some of us take like forever....! but eventually we do move on. When we take our time, sometimes people arround us might not be as patient with us. And want to push us on .... but that wouldn't help in any way. Just like the butterfly goes thru it's struggle to get out of it's cocoon and finally turn into a butterfly, at it's own pace.... We too need to move on... at our own pace! Sometimes some of us might move on too quickly, and it doesn't seem to make sense to the people arround us. But we do! And that shocks them, surprises them, and confuses them too! But it happens! Just like once the butterfly has been thru its struggles and begins to fly...You can't put it back in the cocoon!

Think!

Are you a slow learner or a fast learner? 

So learn through your struggles at your own speed!

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Memories...

 

Memories.... the good and the not so good ones.... We all have many of them. Some that stay with us forever... and some that fade away with time.... and remain just a flicker of a thought, where you wonder if it was real or imagined. The greatest fear we sometimes have is - the fading away of a memory that we want to hold onto forever.

Think!

Do you have memories that bring a smile to your face?

Cherish them keep them safe and think of them more often! 

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Love...

 

If you can find love anywhere....

Love is everywhere...

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Think!

Of all the places you have seen love.....! Real and on screen. 

What was it that caught your attention? Replicate it in your life. Find a way. 

Life Out Of The ICU/NICU

 When you have a life in the ICU or NICU You feel like your life's hanging by a thin thread. You don't really know what your doing you might think your sitting when your standing....! You might think your eating while your sleeping.....! you actually just go thru the motions of living on auto pilot. Not really living... but just going thru the actions of life. In a daze. Till one day you just snap out of the daze one way or another! And then start living again!

Think!

Have you experienced life on auto-pilot at any time?

Look at life today. Surely you have moved on. 

Keep moving. The only way to life.

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Planes Of Existence....

 

Losing someone regularly can really get to you.... as people known to you keep moving on to another plane of existance the only way to keep sane is to start viewing things from a different angle.... the angle that they are still with you just not in physical form, they can hear you, see you, feel you.... and what they would want most for the loved ones they leave behind is for them to heal and remember the good times they had together...though that's easier said than done! But it's possible!...

Think!

Of all the loved ones you will be leaving behind one day. 

What kind words would you say to them to help them thru....

Apply those words to yourself!

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Feeling Cornered..

 Feeling cornered isn't a good feeling.... it's one of complete helplessness! It's almost as if your being told to give up! It's at such times that you actually realize how alone you are in life. And it's tough to just hang in, hoping that something will give, before you do.... and eventually things change for the better. But nothing can be the same again. 

Think!

Hanging on for life! 

Would you hold on tighter or let go of the rope?

Hold on! And Keep holding on. Something will change. 

Wait. Be patient. 

Changing Perspectives...

 

Brushing past death.... you learn to view life from a different or better perspective....?

It's like the knock on your head that knocked some sense into it.
And makes you realise things aren't really as bad as they seem. It also makes you count your blessings one by one, bit by bit till you realize you really have a lot to be thankful for...

Think!

Your alive!

You can think!

Count the number of people and things you're greatful for....

And see your list expand.

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Strength

 

Life is fragile and bound by time...... but love is resilient and is forever...

One moment in time can be the cause of change... huge change. One moment your alive and the next you could be gone. Leaving behind a trail of memories and love in the hearts of the people you love. Sometimes it could be in a flash of time that all has changed and sometimes it could be over a period of days... weeks... months or even years.
Your soul has signed the contract eons before being born...about the end of your time as you know it now. Suffering towards the end of life only buys people who love you time to get used to living their lives without you. Moving on managing in ways they thought impossible. Sometimes a split second between being alive and being gone.... sometimes days.. weeks.. months... or even years.
Love makes you strong in ways you never imagined possible. You think your weak and then in a flash your the strongest you have ever known. Strength lies below the surface of your being. It is there even if you don't know it or believe it. It is. Sometimes the most fragile moment can actually be the moment of enormous strength.

Think!

Your most fragile moment in life must have tought you something new about your self!

That's your strength. Use it. For the good of all. 

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Blessing In Disguise!

 Feeling blessed and knowing you have an angel watching over you is an awesome feeling. You know no matter what, someone's watching over you and always has your back. It's a sense of protection like no other. People can be mean people can say what they like .... thru it all you know you'll always be safe and protected by some mighty force. And you can just feel the warmth of it surrounding you. 

Think!

Just as a parent looks out for a child.

There is a Source in the universe that's watching over you. We belong here!

When was the last time you felt Blessed? 

Or Protected?

Thank the blessing....thank the feeling!

Worry...

 

As time has gone by we have all been affected by our surroundings.... we have all faced the emotions attached to worry and stress. For family and for friends for friends of friends and strangers too. Worry .... has no real value other than attracting to you and the ones you worry about.... exactly that which you do not want.

So true wisdom lies in 100% acceptance of a situation and 10% worry! While sending good wishes and blessings to all!

Think!

Of all your worries....

Hand them over to the universe.

And rest that all will be taken care off. 

Remember.  

All is well.

Rising Like A Pheonix!

 

We can all rise like a phoenix... the point is we have to reach our rock bottom first. You could be at your lowest now, in your past, or maybe you have some time before you get there. 

And once you do there's no stopping you from rising to the highest point your life can be. It will only be the best.... your best!

 

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Choose Happiness....

 

Be happy.... because YOU want to be in a good place! And watch how all things arround you change. Your happiness will create ripples thru the universe.... all you will hear are the echos, of joy and happiness ten fold. 

Your Beliefs...

 You are what your beliefs are..! since what you believe is what will make or break you. All the knowledge in the world is of not much use if you get your beliefs wrong. 

Trees Our Lifeline

 People have been struggling to breathe.... we have seen that right now during the pandemic....with the oxygen needs! 

But still we have the odacity to cut trees... trees are the ones keeping us alive on this planet. Giving us the oxygen we breathe...that too for free. They need only one thing in return from us.... protection!
And yet we fail them time n time again! And expect cities not to flood and clean air to breathe!! Think again.... when you see a tree. It's holier than a human....! It just doesn't speak our language..... Or I'm sure it would have a lot to say.

Form of Prayer!

 

When thoughts words and feelings are on the same frequency, magic happens. It's a form of prayer, that's generally answered.

Love...

We all move from the freedom to love... to the prison of love!

We can choose our partners. But we cannot choose our kids, grand kids and great grandkids.... And once we have them, we are stuck with our hearts hanging by a thread... and our love for them keeps growing even as they grow up and start moving away!

Forgiveness....

Another one easier said than done.... it's easy to say "I forgive you" But it's tough to feel it... actually feel it, while saying it. It takes time and sometimes it's tougher than you think. But eventually you get there. And it just makes you feel better and lighter. Like a huge burden has fallen off your shoulders. Forgive and forget. But doing both is the hardest...! I guess if we try to do either it would work in our favor anyway. Feeling lighter is the way to go! I suppose you could say forgive OR forget instead! And initially it would be a start... as we go along in life we could end up doing both!
 

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Feelings....

Feelings are the compass of our soul. If you don't allow yourself to feel.... you truly are a lost soul. As Feelings guide us thru life we make changes that help us. 
 

Pray....

 

Pray...

Pray. Pray for people. Pray for others. You never know when someone else's prayer will be the one that saved your life! 

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Secret empathy...

 

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Life's curveball...

 

When life throws a curve ball at you. What do you do? You dodge it! But what happens when it does hit you...and hard. It teaches you so much! Strangers become family .... family become strangers.... and yet you pull thru it. Scars and all... Slowly coming out of it bit by bit. Learning things about yourself that you never knew. Learning new things about the people arround you! Some good some shocking... But you pull thru! It's not the end. It never is! 

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Life's detours....

 

We make plans... sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. Yet sometimes the complete opposite of our plans happen! Life catches us off guard. It takes some time for us to learn and realise that our plans have all blown away! It's like we have to start again ... with new plans or none! It's just like a pause button that's been pressed in life, a detour. As sometimes life needs us to know things differently, seeing things from a different angle! That helps us see things more clearly, see the truth, see what we need to do, to change, to move forward. It's like the pause, was actually the wake up call!

Secret Of Uncertainty....

In today's times of uncertainty .... everything seems transitional. The people we know, the places we go, the things we knew... it's suddenly got a new twist to it. It's all about change... going with the flow, not fighting it...
As we know going upstream in a river we might not reach anywhere and just tire ourselves out. But if we move with the flow we'd reach our destination or somewhere new much faster and with less strain. Eventually it's all about moving, or rather changing to adapt with our changing environment. 

 

 

Grateful

 

Being greatful is what puts you on the path to recovery... Even when you actually truly have nothing to be greatful for! Those are the actual times that gratefulness can turn your life around. You can simply start by being greatful for the air you breathe, the sunlight on your skin, the flavor of the food you eat, the sounds of giggles and the smell of the earth after the first rainfall.... the simple things that are otherwise taken for granted on a daily basis.....

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This Too Shall Pass

 This too shall pass..... it's when we get stuck in life forgetting these words that we end up in a panic, feeling it's the end of our world. Anytime we're down if we take the trouble to realize that it's also temporary just like the other things in life.... we can just hang in there enough to bounce back into the life we love and can enjoy....

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Reason

 Most things happen for a reason and we figure that out. But sometimes it's hard to figure out the reason why? It happened. These are the times we most need to trust God, Source, a higher power who knows what he's doing even when we don't! 

Inspiration

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Gratitude is the greatest form of inspiration...
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The Secret to Life

The secret to life is none other than knowing when to hold on and knowing when to let go..... But the question is how? Faith. Having faith in the way things work out in your favor. Knowing the difference between faith and hope! Knowing when to follow your heart and have faith in the moment.... And knowing when to keep the flame of hope flickering for longer....

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Grief

Dealing with grief isn't easy...talking about it doesn't get any easier! The first time you loose someone you love, makes you feel its the end of the world. You feel you'll never recover. Some drown in sorrow and some in hard work. Work work and work. Is the only thing that works! It numbs the pain...as your ultimately to exhausted to feel anything or think of anything.Time time and more time. Is the only way to heal! As time goes by you begin to cling onto the memories.... as the memories are the only thing you have left behind.
The second time you encounter grief.... you go thru the same cycle, but know in your heart there will be a time in your life when you will cherish the memories more than the pain! 

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Positivity

It was like swimming upstream against the currents, surrounded by negativity. Every turn had negativity flowing all arround. How do you manage to stay positive when its darkness all around? The biggest question? As you manage to hold a positive thought in your mind, and nurture it to grow into a bigger thought and feeling, something happens... And it pulls you down again... and again and again. The cycle of ups and downs keeps happening. Finally you will wonder if it's a losing battle your fighting. Where your defeat was planned all along. And all you actually have is the positivity in your heart and mind. That no matter what the outcome might be.... your positivity will always win, even if you feel you have lost something precious. In your heart of hearts in your soul you know nothing is ever lost or gained. It's all an illusion. Just as the old science theory goes.... 'Energy is neither created nor destroyed.... it can only change from one form to another.' So it is with us as humans too... we too are just a form of energy. That moves from one form to another. So positivity always wins. It's the silver lining on every cloud in a cloudy sky... It's just the more clouds we have the more silver linings we can find. We just have to keep looking knowing it will always be there no matter what happens. Never give up on finding the silver lining of your clouds! The darker the clouds the shinier the line. Seeing that line thru it all is what will make your positivity soar thru the roof. And once you get into the habit of seeing it always, nothing, no one and not even your random thoughts can stop you from being the best possible positive self that you can be!

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