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Showing posts with label pain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pain. Show all posts

Thursday, April 28, 2022

How To Find Positive Meaning Thru Your Grief To Easily Help Heal Life

Find meaning through your grief.... it helps! It helps you look at things in a different way. Sometimes that's all we need, a tiny nudge to see things differently and hence more clearly. It helps put ourselves back on track, the same or new! But the one most needed by us for healing to take place. You are where you are in time and space for a reason.  A reason that my not be visible or clear to you currently but as time moves on clarity comes along.  https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com


 Find meaning through your grief.... it helps! It helps you look at things in a different way. Sometimes that's all we need, a tiny nudge to see things differently and hence more clearly. It helps put ourselves back on track, the same or new! But the one most needed by us for healing to take place. You are where you are in time and space for a reason.  A reason that my not be visible or clear to you currently but as time moves on clarity comes along.

Thursday, April 21, 2022

Parenting Teens..

  

The cocoon...and the teenage years....! Have a lot in common! You see your teens turning into adults.... and there's not much you can do to help them through their struggles! Other than letting them know that you are there for them.... in case they need you in any way. And that you care about them!  https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

The cocoon...and the teenage years....!
Have a lot in common! You see your teens turning into adults.... and there's not much you can do to help them through their struggles! Other than letting them know that you are there for them.... in case they need you in any way. And that you care about them!


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Thursday, April 14, 2022

Kindness

 

Be kind always with everyone you speak to... say something kind and positive only... for you never know when those words maybe the last that you have spoken or heard!https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

Be kind always with everyone you speak to... say something kind and positive only... for you never know when those words maybe the last that you have spoken or heard!

Thursday, April 7, 2022

Dealing With Pain...

 

No gain without pain.... We've heard that a million times. But here's what you do to reduce the pain.... When you see someone who's going thru more pain. Once you realize that persons pain is much more than yours, all of a sudden your pain won't feel so bad.... You just wouldn't want to trade it for what the other persons going thru! And slowly but surely you'll be greatful for what you have....!   https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

No gain without pain.... We've heard that a million times. But here's what you do to reduce the pain.... When you see someone who's going thru more pain. Once you realize that persons pain is much more than yours, all of a sudden your pain won't feel so bad.... You just wouldn't want to trade it for what the other persons going thru! And slowly but surely you'll be greatful for what you have....! 


This is in reply to a comment I got on social media....

I totally agree... pain is pain. But when you see more pain through the eyes of another human, sometimes it can help you realise life could be much worse.  

Believe me I know I've been thru hell n back.🙏

Sorry I don't mean to invalidate anyone's pain.

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Thursday, February 17, 2022

Life Lessons...

 

The greatest lessons you learn in life could come from the most unlikely of places. Sometimes we learn them without actually realizing it. https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

The greatest lessons you learn in life could come from the most unlikely of places. Sometimes we learn them without actually realizing it. 

Thursday, January 6, 2022

Recovery

 

The mind the spirit the body recover at different rates. One much quicker than the other. Each at it's own pace. In your mind  you could have recovered from a trauma, your spirit too could have recovered, but somehow your body might be lagging behind! And you realise it by the signals your body sends to your mind spirit and heart. Give it time as eventually .....the mind body and spirit will have recovered thoroughly.https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

The mind the spirit the body recover at different rates. One much quicker than the other. Each at it's own pace. In your mind  you could have recovered from a trauma, your spirit too could have recovered, but somehow your body might be lagging behind! And you realise it by the signals your body sends to your mind spirit and heart. Give it time as eventually .....the mind body and spirit will have recovered thoroughly. 


Think!

What does your body say? 

What feelings do you get when thinking of something unpleasant? 

What does your mind say, to make things feel better!

And listen....for the body never lies!

Thursday, December 2, 2021

How To Fix A Broken Heart!

 

A broken heart is a broken heart.... there's sometimes just nothing you can do about it.... but be patient with it. It's similar to a mirror once cracked and put back together..... it's still a mirror... but the image is unclear....! So it is with the broken heart. Maybe it's just not clear..... about how it feels. It takes time, time and some more time before things start looking like they were! https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

A broken heart is a broken heart.... there's sometimes just nothing you can do about it.... but be patient with it. It's similar to a mirror once cracked and put back together..... it's still a mirror... but the image is unclear....! So it is with the broken heart. Maybe it's just not clear..... about how it feels. It takes time, time and some more time before things start looking like they were!


Think!

Have you been heartbroken? 

Be patient be kind time heals. Treat yourself well.


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Thursday, October 21, 2021

Moving On..

We all move on from events in our life. Some of us move on quicker than others and some of us take like forever....! but eventually we do move on. When we take our time, sometimes people arround us might not be as patient with us. And want to push us on .... but that wouldn't help in any way. Just like the butterfly goes thru it's struggle to get out of it's cocoon and finally turn into a butterfly, at it's own pace.... We too need to move on... at our own pace! Sometimes some of us might move on too quickly, and it doesn't seem to make sense to the people arround us. But we do! And that shocks them, surprises them, and confuses them too! But it happens! Just like once the butterfly has been thru its struggles and begins to fly...You can't put it back in the cocoon!https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

We all move on from events in our life. Some of us move on quicker than others and some of us take like forever....! but eventually we do move on. When we take our time, sometimes people arround us might not be as patient with us. And want to push us on .... but that wouldn't help in any way. Just like the butterfly goes thru it's struggle to get out of it's cocoon and finally turn into a butterfly, at it's own pace.... We too need to move on... at our own pace! Sometimes some of us might move on too quickly, and it doesn't seem to make sense to the people arround us. But we do! And that shocks them, surprises them, and confuses them too! But it happens! Just like once the butterfly has been thru its struggles and begins to fly...You can't put it back in the cocoon!


Think!

Are you a slow learner or a fast learner? 

So learn through your struggles at your own speed!

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Thursday, October 14, 2021

Memories...

 

Memories.... the good and the not so good ones.... We all have many of them. Some that stay with us forever... and some that fade away with time.... and remain just a flicker of a thought, where you wonder if it was real or imagined. The greatest fear we sometimes have is - the fading away of a memory that we want to hold onto forever.https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

Memories.... the good and the not so good ones.... We all have many of them. Some that stay with us forever... and some that fade away with time.... and remain just a flicker of a thought, where you wonder if it was real or imagined. The greatest fear we sometimes have is - the fading away of a memory that we want to hold onto forever.


Think!

Do you have memories that bring a smile to your face?

Cherish them keep them safe and think of them more often! 


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Thursday, October 7, 2021

Life Out Of The ICU/NICU

When you have a life in the ICU or NICU You feel like your life's hanging by a thin thread. You don't really know what your doing you might think your sitting when your standing....! You might think your eating while your sleeping.....! you actually just go thru the motions of living on auto pilot. Not really living... but just going thru the actions of life. In a daze. Till one day you just snap out of the daze one way or another! And then start living again.  https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com


 When you have a life in the ICU or NICU You feel like your life's hanging by a thin thread. You don't really know what your doing you might think your sitting when your standing....! You might think your eating while your sleeping.....! you actually just go thru the motions of living on auto pilot. Not really living... but just going thru the actions of life. In a daze. Till one day you just snap out of the daze one way or another! And then start living again!


Think!

Have you experienced life on auto-pilot at any time?

Look at life today. Surely you have moved on. 

Keep moving. The only way to life.


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Thursday, September 16, 2021

Changing Perspectives...

 

Brushing past death.... you learn to view life from a different or better perspective....?  It's like the knock on your head that knocked some sense into it. And makes you realise things aren't really as bad as they seem. It also makes you count your blessings one by one, bit by bit till you realize you really have a lot to be thankful for..https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

Brushing past death.... you learn to view life from a different or better perspective....?

It's like the knock on your head that knocked some sense into it.
And makes you realise things aren't really as bad as they seem. It also makes you count your blessings one by one, bit by bit till you realize you really have a lot to be thankful for...

Think!
Your alive!
You can think!
Count the number of people and things you're greatful for....
And see your list expand.

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Thursday, September 9, 2021

Strength

 

Life is fragile and bound by time...... but love is resilient and is forever...  One moment in time can be the cause of change... huge change. One moment your alive and the next you could be gone. Leaving behind a trail of memories and love in the hearts of the people you love. Sometimes it could be in a flash of time that all has changed and sometimes it could be over a period of days... weeks... months or even years. Your soul has signed the contract eons before being born...about the end of your time as you know it now. Suffering towards the end of life only buys people who love you time to get used to living their lives without you. Moving on managing in ways they thought impossible. Sometimes a split second between being alive and being gone.... sometimes days.. weeks.. months... or even years. Love makes you strong in ways you never imagined possible. You think your weak and then in a flash your the strongest you have ever known. Strength lies below the surface of your being. It is there even if you don't know it or believe it. It is. Sometimes the most fragile moment can actually be the moment of enormous strength.https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com

Life is fragile and bound by time...... but love is resilient and is forever...

One moment in time can be the cause of change... huge change. One moment your alive and the next you could be gone. Leaving behind a trail of memories and love in the hearts of the people you love. Sometimes it could be in a flash of time that all has changed and sometimes it could be over a period of days... weeks... months or even years.
Your soul has signed the contract eons before being born...about the end of your time as you know it now. Suffering towards the end of life only buys people who love you time to get used to living their lives without you. Moving on managing in ways they thought impossible. Sometimes a split second between being alive and being gone.... sometimes days.. weeks.. months... or even years.
Love makes you strong in ways you never imagined possible. You think your weak and then in a flash your the strongest you have ever known. Strength lies below the surface of your being. It is there even if you don't know it or believe it. It is. Sometimes the most fragile moment can actually be the moment of enormous strength.

Think!
Your most fragile moment in life must have tought you something new about your self!
That's your strength. Use it. For the good of all. 

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Friday, June 18, 2021

Life's curveball...

 

When life throws a curve ball at you. What do you do? You dodge it! But what happens when it does hit you...and hard. It teaches you so much! Strangers become family .... family become strangers.... and yet you pull thru it. Scars and all... Slowly coming out of it bit by bit. Learning things about yourself that you never knew. Learning new things about the people arround you! Some good some shocking... But you pull thru! It's not the end. It never is!  https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com
When life throws a curve ball at you. What do you do? You dodge it! But what happens when it does hit you...and hard. It teaches you so much! Strangers become family .... family become strangers.... and yet you pull thru it. Scars and all... Slowly coming out of it bit by bit. Learning things about yourself that you never knew. Learning new things about the people arround you! Some good some shocking... But you pull thru! It's not the end. It never is! 


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Friday, June 11, 2021

Can Try...


 

Life's detours....

 

We make plans... sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. Yet sometimes the complete opposite of our plans happen! Life catches us off guard. It takes some time for us to learn and realise that our plans have all blown away! It's like we have to start again ... with new plans or none! It's just like a pause button that's been pressed in life, a detour. As sometimes life needs us to know things differently, seeing things from a different angle! That helps us see things more clearly, see the truth, see what we need to do, to change, to move forward. It's like the pause, was actually the wake up call!

We make plans... sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. Yet sometimes the complete opposite of our plans happen! Life catches us off guard. It takes some time for us to learn and realise that our plans have all blown away! It's like we have to start again ... with new plans or none! It's just like a pause button that's been pressed in life, a detour. As sometimes life needs us to know things differently, seeing things from a different angle! That helps us see things more clearly, see the truth, see what we need to do, to change, to move forward. It's like the pause, was actually the wake up call!

Wednesday, April 21, 2021

Grief

Dealing with grief isn't easy...talking about it doesn't get any easier! The first time you loose someone you love, makes you feel its the end of the world. You feel you'll never recover. Some drown in sorrow and some in hard work. Work work and work. Is the only thing that works! It numbs the pain...as your ultimately to exhausted to feel anything or think of anything.Time time and more time. Is the only way to heal! As time goes by you begin to cling onto the memories.... as the memories are the only thing you have left behind. The second time you encounter grief.... you go thru the same cycle, but know in your heart there will be a time in your life when you will cherish the memories more than the pain!




Dealing with grief isn't easy...talking about it doesn't get any easier! The first time you loose someone you love, makes you feel its the end of the world. You feel you'll never recover. Some drown in sorrow and some in hard work. Work work and work. Is the only thing that works! It numbs the pain...as your ultimately to exhausted to feel anything or think of anything.Time time and more time. Is the only way to heal! As time goes by you begin to cling onto the memories.... as the memories are the only thing you have left behind.
The second time you encounter grief.... you go thru the same cycle, but know in your heart there will be a time in your life when you will cherish the memories more than the pain! 

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Wednesday, January 22, 2020

Love Or The Pain

 
Its upto us to choose which one we want to live with ....once our loved ones have moved on. Close your eyes and choose the feeling ....the feeling of the love or the pain. And life unfolds accordingly. https://thoughtinspiring.blogspot.com


Its upto us to choose which one we want to live with ....once our loved ones have moved on.
Close your eyes and choose the feeling ....the feeling of the love or the pain.
And life unfolds accordingly.

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Monday, December 9, 2013

Sudden death....

Sudden death happens when the person's work on the
other plane is more important than the work on the physical plane.
Each of us have one or more guardian angels,
sometimes a guardian angel could be known to us.
Thus I feel sudden death could be a reason
we need them as our angels instead.....
The Farohar is a symbol of a man with wings which could mean ....
Man can be bound by neither time nor space
he is essentially free as a bird.

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